What Is The Secret To Turning Your Attitude Around?

The Law of Polarity states you have to have the opposite to everything.  If you’re down you have to go up.  If you have a desire inside of you, it has to manifest to the outside world.   So what is the secret?

No matter what you are thinking or feeling there is an opposite to it.  What you want to follow is making sure that thought or feeling is a good one and if it’s not, take the time to shift it to the positive.

I coached a client recently that did not think her business could take off in the current economic climate.  I asked her why she felt that way and she said every other business was failing so why would hers succeed.

I coached her on tapping into her intuition and using that guidance to help her in her business.  Once she tapped in she was able to come up with marketing strategies no one else in her field was doing.  She found the secret to success. This helped her stand out from the crowd and brought business to her at a steady pace.

My client was amazed that she could have a successful business.  I told her that her desire to have one from the inside had to manifest on the outside per the Law of Polarity.
She has a thriving business now and finally understands that you have the power to change your world, not anyone else.

If you’re feeling down about something:

•    Connect with your inner guidance
•    Feel where you want to be
•    Take action to get there

Your inner guidance is going to let you know what decision you should be making around your thought or feeling.  It’s going to give you the one that will make you feel good.  This may come to you right away or a few days later.  Either way is fine…don’t rush it.

See yourself taking that path and feel how you will feel when you are there.  This will start to shift your energy up.

Now figure out your action plan on that decision and follow it.  Once you start this process you will start to feel your energy shift and your mood improve.  Taking action is the way to manifest what you desire.  You can’t just stop at visualizing it and thinking it will fall in your lap.  You have to actively work toward it at the same time.

Do this anytime you start to feel down and pretty soon you will see your mood improving on a regular basis and your outlook brightening!

Do you need help finding the secret?  Let me help you!

What Fear Is Holding Back Your Winning Attitude?

Do you have a big dream or goal in life but fear is holding you back from going after it?  You need to release fear in order to accomplish what you desire. To have a winning attitude, you have to push past the fear that is keeping you frozen in place.

Fear is usually the ego telling you you’re not good enough, crazy for even thinking of this, too stupid, not rich enough and on and on.
A friend, Steve, came to me recently for help in his life.  He wanted to purchase a new home but he was scared to move forward.  He felt that there was a voice inside him saying he didn’t deserve a new home, he should be happy in his current apartment.  Where was his winning attitude?

I told Steve that ego was coming into play here.  Fear can be a great thing when it keeps you out of danger.  For instance fear of being on a dark street in the middle of the night is good because you move quickly and get out of harms way.

On the other hand, Fear that is holding you back from bettering yourself is not good.  If you are not moving forward in your life because you are scared of what other people will think or say you are dealing with the fear in your head.  You need to push past that.
I helped Steve to see that the fear of buying a house was his ego trying to get him to stay in a safe place in his head.  This was obviously not the best choice for Steve.  Once he got out all the fears that people would think he couldn’t afford a house or that he should save money and stay in the small apartment he was in, he was able to list all the great things about the new house and how it made him feel to think of it.

Steve realized that the positive outweighed the negative and he pushed the fear aside and made the leap. Now he is in his beautiful new home and he is happier than he has been in years.

If you are letting fear hold you back:

•    Connect with your inner guidance
•    Put together an action plan
•    Push ahead

When you connect with your inner guidance you are going to find it whispering to you all the right answers to your questions.

By putting together an action plan you are telling your ego that the fear thinking it is forcing upon you doesn’t work for you.

An action plan gives you a clear outline of what your goal is and the steps you need to take to reach it.  It will also make it easier for you to gauge when you need to take action on each step so you can easily follow the plan.

Pushing ahead is the way to push past the fear.  Once you get past the fear anything is possible!

Let me help you push past your fear and keep a winning attitude in life!

What Do You Know About The Law of Attraction?

The Law of Attraction says that whatever you are focused on is what the Universe will give you more of.  Many people watched the movie The Secret, but many didn’t know what part they missed because what they wanted still wasn’t appearing.

The part you missed wasn’t there, but should have been.  It’s not all about focusing on what you want.  You have to stop focusing on what you Don’t want.

Many people think that you can just visualize what you want and it will magically appear.  There is an additional step to that.  Yes, you have to visualize what you want, but you also have to take action to get it.  Also, you have to stop focusing on what you don’t want because the more you do that, you will be holding up the manifestation of what you do want.  The Law of Attraction isn’t just a magic tool that will bring you what you want without you going after it.

Many people spend their day on:

•    I really want that but
•    I can’t afford it
•    It’s too much money
•    I’m not smart enough
•    It’s too risky

Take you mind off those negative thoughts.  Change your thought to one of abundance whenever you catch yourself thinking negative.  Remember that anything is possible as long as you put your mind to it.  Once you get past the negative thoughts you will be able to more easily bring in the answers to how to receive what you do want.

Change your thought to “won’t it be great when” and pretty soon you’ll see the Universe laying the path for what you really want instead of what you don’t want just because that is what you are focused on.

You can change your story as you go.  Listen to yourself and pay attention to what you are thinking and saying.  When the negativity comes out make sure you stop yourself and say “OK, so that is what I don’t want…now, what DO I want” and you will find that the more you do it the less you will have to think about it.

Soon you will be changing your thoughts and words automatically and you will find that as your story changes your life becomes easier.  When you are positive and putting out that energy to the Universe, it is easier to accomplish your goals and to find the answers to help you in your journey.  You will find angels along the way that will guide you and life will be a much happier place for you!

Let me help you in connecting to your intuition and using the Law of Attraction to change your life!

What Can A Life Style Coach Do For Your Self Growth?

What do you really know about coaching?  There are a lot of different coaches so you need to pick the one for you.

A Lifestyle coach can help you in all various aspects of how you live your life.  You will gain clarity on decisions you are making and why.  You will have a new plan to lay out the path you want to be on.  You will also have the support you need while you are on the path.  All in All you will be making great strides in your self growth.

The benefits to having a lifestyle coach are:

•    Having someone to help you in your decisions
•    Someone to show you the path you need to take that you may not see
•    Support on that path

We all have to make choices with how we live our lives.  A lifestyle coach can help you with understanding the path you should be taking and how to reach your intuition to make your decisions and self growth easier and effortless.

Once you are able to tap into your inner guidance you will find that the path just keeps flowing easily in front of you.  You don’t trip over the stones you may have before.

A coach will support you on your journey, discuss your questions, push past your fears and hold you accountable for making the changes you say you want.  It is so beneficial to have someone there to remind you of what you said you wanted and to hold you accountable for getting there.  It is also great to have someone to guide you when you get confused along your path.

You can’t always change things in your life on your own.  You need someone there to guide and support you.  Someone to cheer you on and help you see why your fears shouldn’t hold you back from living your dreams and the life you truly want for yourself.

Being a lifestyle coach I can tell you that I have helped my clients to take the path they were on and reevaluate it to make sure it is the best for them and that they will be happy on the journey.  If I find they are not happy, I have the ability to help them see how to reach the part of their life that will fulfill them.

That is where a lifestyle coach comes in – to help you make your dream life a wonderful reality!

I would love to help you create your wonderful reality…contact me!

How Can The Law of Attraction Help You Be Successful In Tough Times?

This past year was really rough on the economy.  So many people lived in fear.  On the other hand many entrepreneurs had their best year yet.  How? The power of positivity, which is one of the Universal Laws.  You are probably most familiar with the Law of Attraction.

So many people were caught up in doom and gloom and that is what the Universe gave them more of.  The ones that focused on gratitude for all they had and positive thinking for the future of their businesses are the ones that made it far this past year.

Even with all the doom and gloom about the economy and businesses closing down, there was still a number of businesses that had their best year yet.  Unfortunately, use of the Law of Attraction does not sell newspapers so you really never heard about those companies.

I want to tell you that it is absolutely possible to be successful in your business no matter what economy you are in.  The successful people and millionaires of this world know about the Law of Attraction and put it into play in their lives daily.

These people don’t listen to the naysayers.  They don’t do things because that is what others are doing.  They look inside themselves for the answers and do what feels right to them, no matter what others have to say about it.

You too can be successful.

•    Keep a gratitude journal
•    Shift your attitude to a positive one
•    Connect to your inner guidance

Gratitude journals are a great way to change your attitude.  As you start to write you think of even more.  This grateful state of mind makes you realize how fortunate you really are and shifts your attitude to a positive one.  By shifting your attitude, you will be able to think outside the box and come up with new ideas that you didn’t think were possible.

These new ideas are what make people successful.  Putting these ideas into your life because they are right for you is what makes the difference and makes you stand out in a crowd.

Connecting to your inner guidance will keep you on the right track with your choices and everything will flow easily.  The Universe will give you what you need whether you realize it or not. The Universe wants success for you more than you want it for yourself.

Sometimes you will find answers you didn’t expect or people will come into your life to help you in your new endeavor.  Take advantage of these moments and you will be as successful as the other businesses that just had their best year!

Let me help you make 2010 your best year yet!

Have You Ever Had A Spirit Guide Show You That You Can Heal Your Life?

Native Americans believe in Spirit Guides…do you?  I have found that we all have a spirit guide.  This is a spirit in the non physical form that is with us and guides us on our journey through life as physical beings.  Our spirit guide keeps us safe and helps us in our decisions along our journey through life.  The spirit guide will show you that you can heal your life.

You can call these spirit guides angels if you’d like.  Spirit guides will:

•    Help you in your decisions
•    Keep you safe
•    Help you on your journey

Spirit Guides will help you in making your decisions.  They may give you answers to questions you have through the way of symbols, sounds, something you see, something you hear.  There are all different ways that a Spirit Guide will get the message to you that you can heal your life.  You may not see it the first time either.  They will keep providing the answer to you in any way they can to get you to realize that it is what you need.

They will keep you safe in otherwise unsafe areas.  Ever hear a voice that seems like it is right next to you telling you to be careful?  You look around and no one is there.  Pay attention to that voice.  You won’t be able to see them but these are your spirit guides making sure you stay away from danger.  Sometimes if they want your attention enough, it will seem like they are right next to you talking to you.  No, you aren’t going crazy, just pay attention and things will work out for you.

Spirit guides will guide you on any journey you take in life.  Trust me, there will be many journeys you will be on in life and they will change from time to time.  Your spirit guide will be there through all the changes, the good and bad times and will be there holding your hand along the way to give you the needed support you seek.

Trust your spirit guide and your choices will be easier all the time.  They are here for you so that you can make the most of your life.  They are able to guide you to the best answer for you at the time you are in.  You have to start at the place you are at and your spirit guide will know the right way for you to proceed.

If you would like help in your journey let’s talk!

Do You Use Your Intuition In Business as Motivation?

All business owners have felt it at one time or another.  The feeling that they just made the wrong decision.  When you look back on it though you will realize that you KNEW it was the wrong decision before you even made it.  This is the feeling you can use in the future as motivation in making a choice you are comfortable with.

Intuition works not only in your life but in your business as well.  Many people have stepped away from their intuition over the years without really realizing it.
I have clients that come to me and say “I knew in my gut I shouldn’t have partnered with that person but I did it anyway and now I lost business because of it” and I have to teach them how to connect with their intuition to prevent this in the future.

When you have that bad gut feeling that a decision is wrong, pay attention.  You will be so happy that you followed that instinct.  Your motivation for the project may not have been right for you which is what your intuition was telling you.

Your intuition is not going to lead you in the wrong direction.  It is giving you signs that you are stepping into a bad area.

If you feel happy about a decision and have that light energy around it, you will know that your intuition is telling you to go ahead and jump!

We all have intuition but over the years people seem to forget that.  Even though you sometimes don’t feel right about a decision you do it anyway.  Why?  You’ve moved away from trusting yourself.

If a decision:

•    Doesn’t feel right to you
•    Doesn’t have you excited
•    Feels wrong
•    Makes your stomach feel sick

It’s not the way to go.  All your decisions should feel good to you.  They should make you smile and give you a sense of peace and calm.  If that is not the outcome you made the wrong decision.  If you are awake at night fretting about something that happened or an upcoming call, you are not in the place you need to be.

If at all possible when you have that feeling, run the other way or change your mind after the fact if you have already made a decision.  You will feel instant relief when you have followed your intuition and have made a decision that feels good to you.

The good thing is that you can always re-teach yourself to listen to your intuition.  Once you follow that guidance you will see how easily your life flows and how good you feel on an everyday basis.

For help in tapping into your intuition more often click here!

Do You Feel Your Angelic Guides and Good Thoughts?

Years ago I was on the fast track working 24/7 and feeling like my life was great because of all the money I was making.  I was in real estate and it was great.  My commissions were allowing me to get my family everything I thought they wanted.  I could afford whatever anyone desired. I thought I was having good thoughts about life.  Then tragedy hit in the form of a boating accident.  I died from drowning…then I came back.

While I was gone from this life I reconnected with my angelic guides.  They redefined for me my purpose on Earth and then allowed me to come back to fulfill it.  I have the gift of Intuition…and so do you.

I forgot over the years how to connect with my inner self for guidance.  Now I am reconnected and I want to teach you how to do this for yourself.  It changes your life for the better when you are seeking answers from your inner guidance and not from outside forces.  The good thoughts you have are what helps to change you.

I came to realize that spending time with my family was more important than being able to buy them everything.  They needed my attention more than they needed the latest and greatest technology.

Angelic guides are all around us and appear in our lives as we need them.  They may be strangers, business partners, family, friends, clients or pets.
The Universe sends us what we need to move toward our goals. The Universe wants us to be happy and productive in a way that will make us feel good inside.  You shouldn’t be upset or sick over a decision.  You should have a feeling of peace and calm around every choice you make and if that is not there you should move on to the next solution until you find that happy feeling inside.

Angelic guides come in all shapes and sizes and you usually don’t realize they are there. You may not see who they really are until years after they have left your life.  Often your angelic guide will gently move you in the direction you need to go.  Other times, if you are too stubborn, your angelic guide may be more forceful to make you see the way past all your negativity or ego.

They appear when needed to help you on your journey and when you start to connect with them you can see them for who they really are…angels!

Click here to see how I can help you connect to YOUR intuition!

Does Your Ego Have An Attitude?

You know the voice in your head that shouts at you every reason why something won’t work?  That’s the voice that has an attitude problem.  It is the voice that never seems to be quiet.  It is always yelling and telling you what you did wrong.

The ego is the one thing holding you back from getting what you want because it is always so negative.  You don’t need to hear your ego bring you down.  Just learn to

•    Thank it and move on
•    Not pay attention

You can get past your ego’s yelling.  Acknowledge what it is saying and move ahead with what you want despite its reasons why you shouldn’t.  The Universe wants you to move forward in life and have everything you dream of.  Your ego and it’s attitude on the other hand does not want that.

Your ego thinks that you need to be praised from others in order to have a great life.  You don’t need this.  You need to be happy inside yourself with the decisions you make.  If you do not feel good inside with a decision you need to ignore the ego that is telling you to push ahead and take credit for the choice.  Once you start to let your inner guidance move you in your decisions, the ego will start to get quieter.  It’s like the bully that you ignore.  If it’s no fun and it’s not getting a rise out of you, it will stop bothering you and move on to something new.

Stop paying attention to the negative and replace it with the positive.  When you’re ego tells you why it won’t work turn around and tell your ego why it will work.  Keep a gratitude journal to remind yourself of all you are grateful for.  This instantly puts you in a better frame of mind.  Then put together a list of everything good about your decision and why it will work out for the best.  This will show you and your ego that you have made the right decision for you.

Pretty soon the positive will outweigh the negative.  This will keep you in the frame of mind to continue with this practice every time you doubt yourself.
Once this happens you can more easily get to the places you want to go because you will be following your dreams and not your fears.

To find out how I can help you quiet your ego click here!

Do You Have A Can Do Attitude?

It can only go up from here!  I’ve heard it said that breakthrough ideas come when you are down and don’t think there’s anywhere left to go. I know that is true!  After my accident when I hit bottom and couldn’t work like I used to is when I had the epiphany that I didn’t need to work 24/7 to be happy.  Money is not what makes people happy.  Sure, it helps you in life and you can get what you need easier but it doesn’t make up the parts of your life that mean the most.  In order to change your life you need to have a can do attitude.

When you finally get angry about your situation you’re stepping up.  Anger leads you to make the decision to change things.  Once you make that decision you start to go up.  You are closer to becoming who you want to be and having the life you want for yourself when you get angry about where you are at.  You have to start where you are to move forward.

•    Get angry
•    Decide to change  the situation
•    Put together ideas
•    Put together a plan
•    Take action

Once you decide to change your circumstances ask for inner guidance to know what the right choice is for you to make next.  You may have an answer come to you that you didn’t expect.  It may be in the form of a symbol, words, something you see. By having a can do attitude you will be on the lookout for the sign. It could be anything but once you have asked for inner guidance you should be on the lookout for the answer in any way it could possibly come.

Once you have that answer put together a plan and move toward it.  You can have the answer but if you aren’t taking action, nothing is going to happen.

A lot of people end up being thankful for the down and out times in their lives because without that they never would have been angry enough at life to change it for the better.  If you are those times now, it may not seem like something you are grateful for but you will see as you actively make changes that you had to start there in order to create what you desire.
Change is good.  It leads you down a new path and when you seek answers from within, you will find that the new path is exactly where you need to be.

If you would like help in changing your life click here to find out how I can help you!